Premature Ejaculation Cures

Wednesday, February 25th, 2009 at 2:58 am

Premature ejaculation cures are an elusive subject. The reason for that is, the very definition of premature ejaculation is actually subjective in nature. In other words, it is different for everyone, and the only real criteria is when you ejaculate before you intend to. And strictly speaking, that could be 10 minutes or 2 hours. In fact, if you and your lover are both completely satisfied with your sex upon ejaculating after 5 or 10 minutes, whether or not that “seems” premature by anyone else’s standards – then technically, you have no premature ejaculation problem.

Also, premature ejaculation is not commonly caused by physiological problems. It really isn’t a “disease” so the term “premature ejaculation cures” might not be a totally accurate statement when discussing ways to deal with this problem. But generally speaking, many guys have experienced premature ejaculation, and most would agree that it is a problem in need of a cure. And perhaps more to the point, our partners concur. “Medically correct” or not, we seek out premature ejaculation cures intuitively as if this occurrence truly were a disease – an embarrassing, inconvenient, and thorny disease in terms of the effect it can have on our relationships.

So, getting our minds around these elusive premature ejaculation cures starts with getting our minds around what premature ejaculation truly is, and is not. More specfically, we might say that it is a matter of understanding the causes of premature ejaculation. Makes sense right? Treat the cause (not the symptom) and you stand a chance of being “cured”. Anything else would simply be a band-aid approach to a problem much deeper than the skin (no pun intended.)

One cause of premature ejaculation that may not be entirely obvious to many men goes back to conditioning (self or otherwise) leftover from puberty. Remember when we first discovered masturbation? I don’t know about you, but I grew up with older sisters, and masturbation was not something I could just do comfortably at my leisure. I had to hide it. And that means, I had to rush it.

This is often an underlying cause of premature ejaculation for adult men – their bodies are hard-wired to get the job done quickly, for fear of getting caught spanking it. Understanding this, and reversing that conditioning, is a key to overcoming PE, and for many men, a first step towards discovering premature ejaculation cures that really address the underlying cause. In this case, the cure is to simply consciously remind yourself to slow down, that there is no rush, no “shame” in the act of lovemaking, etc. By the way, although this example is very specific in the type of anxiety I am describing, keep in mind that anxiety in general is a common underlying cause of PE.

Another common cause is excitement. This one often plagues the young and/or inexperienced at lovemaking. It can happen to veterans though, especially if they are in a new relationship. The bottom line here is that normally, the more experience we get, the more control we have. However, there are a number of premature ejaculation cures that address this cause directly.

Premature Ejaculation Cures

Start and Stop:

Stop just before your point of no return, wait 30 seconds, then start up again.

Squeeze:

Same as the above, but squeeze the head of the penis between thumb and forefinger for 30 seconds, then start again.

Masturbation:

Do this 2 to 4 hours prior to your big date. Works wonders.

Stay on the Bottom:

Let your partner take the top. Gravity is your friend.

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Premature Ejaculation Cures